Twin Flames : It’s always been about YOU

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First and foremost I’d like to apologize for all previous spelling and grammatical errors  that I’ve made in previous blog posts.  I tried to make myself twice as productive by writing blog entries while at work.  In between answering phones, booking appointments, ordering office supplies, and dealing with unhappy clients, I thought I was more than capable of providing quality writing for my gentle readers.  I would learn over the weekend, while rereading old blog entries, that that couldn’t be further from the truth.  I’m sorry for what probably came across as lazy and careless writing.  I’ve decided that I will only relay spiritual messages to you outside of the office, and away from the hustles and bustles of my crazy work life.

During my meditation session a few days ago, my spirits relayed a message to me that I felt I needed to share with the rest of you.  It was said so clear and precise that it gave me goosebumps.  ‘It’s always been about you.’  Yes, you heard me correctly.  It’s always been about YOU!  This message is mostly for the women on this Twin Flame journey.  I know what it’s like to twist your brain every which way wondering what the masculine is doing, and who they’re doing it with.  It isn’t until you’ve taken the time to learn, heal, and grow, that you will realize that separation is the best thing that could’ve ever happened to the two of you.  But enough about HIM, it’s always been about YOU!

I sat down and made a list of all of the wonderful things I’d attracted into my life since I began my Twin Flame journey.  I know realize and rightfully agree, that had my beloved and I never separated;

  • this blog would’ve never been created
  • I would still suffer from a high level of FEAR
  • I would still be plagued by anger and resentments of the past
  • I would’ve never realized I had the ability to heal myself, as well as others
  • My psychic abilities wouldn’t be anywhere near as developed as they are today
  • I would’ve never regained my self confidence and learned to really love myself again
  • I would’ve never realized how negative I once was
  • I would still partake in things that lowered my vibration (ie. heavy drinking/drugs)

***I’d like to point out that during separation, my Twin Flame and I were not in communication with one another.  And if we did communicate, it was through short winded emails.  So for the most part, I was alone during the dark night of soul.  However, I had friends who were always there for me when I needed to vent and let all of my thoughts and emotions out.  I sent one of my friends a text this morning and asked her how the hell she put up with me for the last year.  ‘I knew there was a spiritual meaning behind all of it,’ was her response.  I’m truly blessed to have such awesome hippie friends.

Now I want you to take a step back and ask yourself if you would enjoy being in a relationship with YOU.  Really, would you date someone like you?  Are you needy?  Are you trustworthy?  Do you have your life together?  Have you surrounded yourself with good and positive people?  Do you have a drug/alcohol problem that you choose to ignore?  Have you healed from past traumas?  How is your relationship with your parents and family?  How do you feel when you look in the mirror?  How do you feel when you look at other people?  Do you love yourself?  Have you ever truly loved anyone before?  These are all things that you need to consider before getting into a romantic relationship with anyone (not just your Beloved).

In reference to my the beginning of this blog entry.  I was doing too much too fast.  I took a few steps back and looked at which areas of my life needed balance and healing.  My health was terrible, my fears made me psychotic, and my financial status was in the dirt.  I was not someone who was ready to be in a relationship because my present was an absolute mess.  I made a list of what needed to change and how I was going to change them.  I began meditating and wrote down which healing practices worked, and which ones didn’t.  I reached out to the public and provided healing advice (free of charge) to people suffering from past hurts and traumas.  I started to care about the food I put into my body and started to workout at the gym again.  I began to pay attention to how I felt around certain people and cut negative individuals out of my life who stole my energy and my light.  I started dressing better and wearing clothes that I wanted to wear, not what I thought made me look ‘hot’ or desirable.

The Twin Flame journey is a lifestyle, not a love story.  What you do with your newfound spiritual path is all up to you.  It’s never about them, it’s always been about YOU!

 

 

Marijuana and Remote Seduction with Your Twin Flame

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As I mentioned in my previous blog entry, smoking marijuana before meditation can be beneficial if done properly.  However, I also stress the importance of putting yourself in a positive state of mind before smoking weed to avoid any unexpected paranoia.  Listen to positive music, look at beautiful pictures, have a conversation with a good friend, do whatever it takes to put yourself in a good and happy mood.

Marijuana and connecting with your twin flame is very powerful.  Connecting spiritually to my twin flame while high has been incredibly intense and brought out thoughts and fears I never knew existed in my subconscious.  This is a very powerful exercise and must be done with only pure and honest intentions.  If you’re angry at your Twin Flame and/or wish to send them negativity then DO NOT do this exercise.  Hurting your Beloved, in the end, is only hurting yourself.

Before you begin this exercise, light one up and put yourself in a positive head space. Then put on some meditation music, turn off the lights and lay down.  This is the current meditation track I like to listen to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obrAebOo-Ec&t=3130s

Where Twin Flames truly connect is at the heart chakra.  Your mind will probably be going all over the place after smoking, so it’s best to focus on an image and thought.  I recommend imagining your heart chakra spinning and glowing as you repeat in your mind, “I am love.  I am love.”  Feel your energy circulate through your body and through every part of your being.  You are alive, you are safe, and you are loved.

Once you’ve reached a comfortable calm, it’s time to connect with your Beloved.  DO NOT rush it.  Take your time and make sure you’re in a positive state of mind to avoid any unnecessary anxiety and anger that you may have towards your Twin Flame.

Envision yourself in a warm setting.  It can be any place in your waking life, or a place that is purely fictional.  Imagine your Beloved standing about 20 ft away from you.  Call out their name 3x.   After the third, envision your Twin Flames smile as they turn around and see their Beloved (YOU).  Give your Twin Flame a warm hug and imagine the way they feel as they look into your eyes.  Visualization here is crucial.  You must imagine your twins positive reactions and keep your images positive.

Now,  say whatever it is you want and need to say to your twin.  Your thoughts, your fears, and whatever else you feel they need to hear.  This is a very powerful exercise and caused me to break down in tears a few times.  This exercise is for YOU and to help YOU realize what you need to work on.  Are you afraid of commitment?  Do you have a fear of getting hurt?  This exercise will help you get to the root of whatever it may be that is keeping you and your Beloved apart.

End your supernatural meeting with your Twin Flame on a positive note.  Tell them you love them and that you will talk again soon.  I recommend that you only practice this exercise once a week as it is very intense and will take your body some time to release your emotions and fears.

Blessed be my loves ❤